What does Arcanum 6 (The Lovers) mean in relationships?

Arcanum 6 (The Lovers) in the relationship point of the Destiny Matrix is a very thematic Arcanum: it is directly about love, union, and choice. In its positive expression, it grants a great capacity to love, to value partnership, to build relationships on shared values, and to attract sincere intimacy. For such people, relationships are an important part of life and a source of growth. In its negative expression, the six in relationships manifests as dependency on a partner (life revolves around them), dissolution and loss of self, vacillation and an inability to choose, and a fear of making a mistake and ending up alone. Sometimes it appears as an eternal search for 'the one' instead of building a real union. The lesson of the 6th in relationships is to choose from love and values, not from a fear of loneliness, and not to lose yourself in another. How this Arcanum sits in your relationship point is visible in the matrix. Build yours using your date of birth.